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When a baby is born, it is the greatest gift that God and Mother Nature could give us, in fact, we could say that it is the continuation of our own lives. So we will thank God for that new life. We should welcome this newcomer and enjoy it while we can. May God help the new born baby to be healthy and strong.
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LET ME EXPLAIN THE PURPOSE OF THIS BLOG. THIS IS AN OLD BLOG AND IT HAS GOT MANY USEFUL LINKS IN IT THAT WE WILL CONTINUE TO USE, WHEN WE VISIT THE BLOG. BUT TODAY WE WANT TO USE IT MAINLY TO WRITE A DIARY OF THE LIFE OF A NEW BORN BABY, WHENEVER THERE ARE THINGS TO SAY ABOUT IT. BECAUSE BLOGS NEED TO BE ACTIVE TO ATRACT VISOTORS, WE WILL ALSO WRITE AN OLD MAN LIFE STORY, WHICH ONE DAY COULD BE USED TO COMPARE IT WITH THE NEW BORN BABY, YOU SEE TODAY THINGS CHANGE VERY QUICKLY AND IT COULD BE INTERESTING TO SEE THE GREAT DIFFERENCE LATER. WE WOULD ALSO LIKE TO COLLECT OTHER LINKS LIKE BABY SONGS TO MAKE IT MORE BABY FRIENDLY.
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Sunday, April 2, 2017
My harsh own destiny
WE ARE CANGING THIS BLOG NAME, WE ARE GOING TO CALL IT, BABY RAFAEL STORY. While we are posting Baby Rafael story, we will also post some grandpa life story, because even an old-man life story could be compared to todays' way of life.
Welcome to our blog, Baby Rafael story plus
and this post, my harsh destiny
- My harsh destiny
Most of us believe that we have our own destiny, if that is true, then my own destiny has been a harsh one. It has started from when I was a child and all my life, I have always worked hard with no much enjoyment in between. Even today there are so many problems, that I don't even like to tell other people willingly, but sometimes we have to do it, and tell our story the way it is.
My harsh destiny
Dear readers, after complaining about the programs rip off, we are going
back to post our usual posts, so, let me continue with my harsh destiny. Click edit above to add content to
this empty capsule.
As I was saying in
our last post about, farm life unfair situation, we are born in a family that
somehow decides also our destiny, because of the way that family lives and have
lived perhaps for centuries; but there is more to say about our destiny,
because some of us would like to believe that we are born with a destiny to
fulfil, and if it is so, then my destiny is not a bright one, because from the
beginning of my life I have had a hard life and this has continued during my
life, perhaps it will still continue until I die, but anyhow let us go back to
my life story in the farm, whether it was my destiny or not.
As I have already
mentioned above about my own farm life when I was young, and I reckon and feel
that it was really unfair to my personal self, and to those youths that had to
live in the farm as I did, this fact of life I will continue to describe to you
at length and in depth as I keep writing on, since the main point that I want
to make here is to show you how I had to struggle and to suffer while I was
living in the farm, and even later on in the future as we will see, from these
articles that I am writing. In fact, for me life was going to be much harder
than I thought, since that way of life which I had lived in the farm had left
me so far backward, because of that isolation that existed in the farms, I even
lacked in local general knowledge about the people of the town, and also in
communication skills including all those nice things that a person says and
does, which would make that same person attractive to the rest of the
Here I have also to
say that this early disadvantaged way of life, it has affected me greatly for
the rest of my life, and although I have tried to improve myself during my
life, I have never been able to catch up with the rest of the world completely.
So that, I feel it within me even now, as if I will never be completely satisfied
with myself, because I think that I could have been better off, if I had a
different and better way of life when I was young to start with.
But since what’s
been done is done, since one cannot go back and do it in a different way,
therefore, I am/was stuck with it. Therefore, I had to put up with my backward
way of life; and I had to accept that the only possible way that was left for
me to earn a living for the rest of my life, had to be that I had to do hard
physical work, which I did in a way or another and this hard work has helped me
to overcome some of my drawbacks. From this life experience one could say that
we should always try to improve ourselves and work hard for it, even when it is
hard for us to find an easy way of life, if we are able to keep this attitude
and work hard during our lives, we would be able to overcome many issues that
could otherwise run us down completely.
Now let us continue
to tell my life story; anyhow, at the time when all this hard and boring life
was happening to us, including all those young people which used to live and
work in this town’s farms, doing this same work as I did it all seemed normal
to us, because even our forebears before us did that, as they had all lived
this same way for centuries before us.
As I was saying
also my forbears used to live in this town that I was born, and in which I had
to live my youth just like them. But, most of my youth and I mean the most
important years of my young life, which is the time when a youth would be
better off to stay in a society and learn the ways of that society, and at the
same time try to find out the meanings of life, which would help him to learn
how to deal with his life in the future in the society that we would be living
in; all those years were spent to live in our family farm and not in the town
itself, and this did put me in a disadvantaged position from the very start, as
I have already mentioned before, all because everything in the world was
changing too fast and farming the old way was on the way out.
Something about this
is also written in this article, Farming today
compared to the old way, Anyhow, I and the
other youths that were working in the farms then, we were caught in this
disadvantaged position and some of us did something to improve our position, as
I am going to tell you in our next post, breaking away from my farm life.
See you soon.
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